Posts Tagged ‘Attorney’

Divorcing if Both Spouses Have Committed Wrongdoing

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

The typical scenario when a spouse learns that the other has done something that destroys the marriage is that the innocent spouse meets with a lawyer, who guides the spouse through the divorce process.  Occasionally, though, you find that while listening to the “outrage” that a client expresses over learning that their spouse has had an affair you also learn that your “innocent” client has also been having an affair.  So what do you do if a client wants a divorce but both spouses are committing adultery?  An agreed resolution on the ground of Irreconcilable Differences would be the preferable outcome, but litigation may be the only option in some circumstances.

The Mississippi Supreme Court recently addressed a similar scenario in Jenkins v. Jenkins.  In Jenkins, the court was faced with a situation where the lower court granted a person a divorce on the ground of Habitual, Cruel and Inhuman Treatment.  The guilty spouse tried to defend the charge by claiming the defense of “recrimination”, which is a common-law defense that states if each party proves a fault ground for divorce then neither is entitled to a divorce.  The defense of recrimination has been altered by Miss. Code Ann. 93-5-3, which allows a court to grant a divorce, even if both parties prove a fault ground for divorce, by determining which spouse’s actions constituted the proximate cause of the destruction of the marriage.  The Mississippi Supreme Court determined that although the wife admitted committing adultery, the trial evidence showed that the husband’s habitual, cruel and inhuman treatment was the cause of the divorce, not the wife’s adultery, and that the lower court properly denied the husband’s recrimination defense.

Although a scenario where both parties are committing actions that constitute divorce grounds is not the preferable situation, a spouse may still be able to obtain a divorce without his/her spouse’s consent if the facts are supportive.  If you find yourself in this situation, speaking with an attorney to help analyze the proximate cause of the destruction of the marriage very early on is vital.

Grounds for Divorce in Mississippi

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

To get a divorce in Mississippi, spouses must either agree on a divorce on the ground of irreconcilable differences or prove that one of the causes for divorce that are specified in Miss. Code Section 93-5-1 exist.  The causes for divorce listed in Section 93-5-1 are:

1.  Natural Impotency

2.  Adultery

3. Being sentenced to any penitentiary, and not pardoned before being sent there

4.  Willful, continued and obstinate desertion for the space of one (1) year

5. Habitual drunkenness

6. Habitual and excessive use of opium, morphine or other like drug

7. Habitual cruel and inhuman treatment

8. Mental illness or mental retardation at the time of marriage, if the party complaining did not know of that infirmity

9. Marriage to some other person at the time of the pretended marriage between the parties

10. Pregnancy of the wife by another person at the time of the marriage, if the husband did not know of the pregnancy

11. Either party may have a divorce if they are related to each other within the degrees of kindred whom marriage is prohibited by law

12. Incurable mental illness

Obviously, some of the divorce grounds are going to be more frequently used than others.  For example, adultery and habitual, cruel and inhuman treatment are the most commonly asserted grounds for divorce while others like natural impotency and being related to one another are very seldomly asserted. 

In later posts, we’ll discuss in more detail the individual grounds for divorce and what constitutes each ground.  If you are considering a divorce, a quick review of the allowable divorce grounds should provide an overview of what circumstances need to exist in order to get a divorce without the consent of your spouse.

What is a No-Fault Divorce?

Tuesday, August 25th, 2009

In Mississippi, a husband and wife may be granted a divorce on the ground of Irreconcilable Differences.  This is often referred to as a “no-fault divorce.”  Of the divorce grounds available in Mississippi, Irreconcilable Differences is usually the simplest, quickest, cheapest and least stressful way to obtain a divorce.

Typically, the husband and wife both sign a document called a Joint Complaint in which they ask the court to grant them a divorce on the basis that irreconcilable differences have arisen between them.  Usually there is a written agreement attached to the Joint complaint that addresses the division of assets and debt, provides for custody and visitation and addresses other issues important in a divorce.  Both spouses will also need to complete a financial statement, unless they agree to waive that requirement.  Once the Joint Complaint is signed, it is filed with the Chancery Clerk’s office in the county of either spouse’s residence, if both are Mississippi residents.  If one of the spouses is not a Mississippi resident, then it should be filed in the county where the Mississippi resident lives.  The Chancery Clerk will require the parties to pay a filing fee at the time they file the Joint Complaint. 

Once the Joint Complaint is filed, it must remain on file for at least 60 days before the judge has the authority to grant the divorce.  In comparison to divorces based on grounds such as adultery, the 60 day period is pretty quick.  During that 60 day waiting period, it is important to remember that you are not divorced.  Even though an agreement has been reached on a divorce, no spouse likes to see their husband/wife displaying their new “companion” in public and such actions often result in litigation.

Once the 60 day waiting period is over, your lawyer will meet with the judge to present the written agreement for approval.  The Court will review the agreement, along with the financial statements, to determine if the agreement is adequate and sufficient.  If so, the Court will sign a document called a Judgment of Divorce that, when filed with the Chancery Clerk, will grant the divorce and end the marriage. 

There are other ways to obtain a divorce on the ground of Irreconcilable Differences and there are variations to the process, but this procedure is the most common.  If you are considering a divorce, you should contact an attorney to discuss your options.  Because of its simple procedure, many people try to get divorced without an attorney.  While this may save a little money on the front end, you may end up with a really bad divorce agreement that you cannot change.  It is well-worth the investment in an attorney to make sure your divorce is done properly.