It is nearly impossible to read the news and not see something about Jon and Kate Gosselin, their divorce and their television show, Jon and Kate Plus 8.  The television show follows the Gosselins as they raise sextuplets.  While you cannot help but feel bad for the children as their publicity-hungry parents divorce in the public eye, it is nevertheless interesting from a divorce perspective to see how the dissolution of a marriage in the public spotlight mirrors those of people who quietly divorce without publicity - all are driven at some level by self preservation, the need for security, the need to “win” and greed.

One of the headlines today is “Kate Accuses Jon of Taking $200,000.”  Apparently, Jon and Kate maintained over $200,000 in a joint account and after being notified that he would no longer be part of the show, Jon withdrew all but $1,000 of the money.  Perhaps Jon had a good reason for the withdrawal, but his “reason” had the effect of leaving his spouse and children with very little to make ends meet.   

When two people separate and anticipate divorce, it is natural to be wary of the other’s intentions and to be mindful of your own financial security, especially when children are involved.  However, it is important to remember that in Mississippi, when money is withdrawn from an account held jointly with your spouse, that the money also belongs to your spouse.  This does not mean withdrawing money is improper (unless a court has prohibited any withdrawals), but you may ultimately have to account for the money if a court decides that you overreached and withdrew more than your share of the marital funds.  In the Gosselin matter, Kate withdrew $100,000 earlier this year and was ordered to return the money.  Now that Jon has done the same thing, it is hard to imagine a court not ordering him to return some or all of the funds to his wife, especially considering she is now raising their eight children alone.

When withdrawing funds from a jointly held account while a divorce is pending, it is important to be reasonable and know that you may be ordered to return all or some of the money, even if it has been spent.  While winning the race to the bank may be beneficial, the benefit may only be temporary.