Posts Tagged ‘Rankin County Divorce Lawyer’

Divorce is Expensive

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

Everyone knows divorces can get pretty expensive.  A department store has come up with a solution to help newly divorced people get back on their feet – a divorce registry.  The department store has figured out that with people basically losing half of their belongings in a divorce, family and friends may want to purchase them a gift, much as they do for a wedding, so that items such as irons, toasters and the like may be replenished.  I’m not sure how successful this will be, but it definitely draws attention to the impact a divorce has on items that are often overlooked.

When a couple divorces in Mississippi, all marital property must be divided.  For ease of reference, marital property is essentially all items purchased or accumulated during the marriage by either party, although there are exceptions.  While most people focus on the larger items like vehicles, televisions and furniture, households are filled with all sorts of items that must also be divided.  A person may not realize until after a separation, how much replacement of household items costs.  These are costs that are in addition to attorneys fees and income lost from the other spouse. 

When separating, it is advisable for both spouses, assuming they can agree, to go through the marital residence together and divide all the items room by room.  A list can be created at the same time so each will have a record.  Although a person often is anxious to move on and only focuses on the big items, spending a little time on the little things will save you a lot of money down the road.

Adultery in Mississippi

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Until recently, everyone knew Tiger Woods as one of the most successful wealthiest sports figures in history.  Unfortunately for his family, he is now known as an unfaithful husband whose ever-growing list of paramours will surely haunt his wife for years to come.    The damage caused by adultery though is the same, whether you are Tiger Woods or Joe the Plumber. 

In Mississippi, for a spouse to prove adultery, there must be clear and convincing evidence of both an adulterous inclination and a reasonable opportunity to satisfy that inclination.  Adultery can be proven by circumstantial evidence because the secretive nature of adultery normally prevents someone from obtaining direct evidence of what occurred behind closed doors.  The evidence of adultery must be logical and be inconsistent with a theory of innocence.  A classic example would be evidence that a husband claimed to be going on a business trip to another state but was seen kissing a woman (not his wife), entering a local motel room her and not leaving until the morning.  Of course, this does not provide any evidence of what occurred in the motel room but the evidence would clearly demonstrate facts inconsistent with a theory of innocence and would likely result in a finding of adultery. 

In a Mississippi divorce case, once a spouse proves adultery, the court will decide issues such as child custody and the division of assets.  So not only does the innocent spouse discover the cheating ways of the adulterous spouse, everyone takes a large financial hit with the asset division.  Sadly, however, the pain caused by adultery does not always end quickly.  Often, the destruction of trust caused by the cheating impacts people’s ability to act reasonably after a divorce is concluded.  This usually manifests itself in an unreasonable level of anger, an inability to communicate with the former spouse and frequent post-divorce contempt actions.  It can even result in a lawsuit being filed against the paramour for Alienation of Affections.  Adultery is possibly the most destructive of the divorce grounds in Mississippi. 

If you are the innocent spouse in an adultery situation, it is important to speak with a lawyer quickly to determine the best way to preserve evidence if you decide to pursue a divorce and so that you will understand what is necessary should you pursue a divorce.  Even resuming normal marital relations with your spouse after learning of an affair may drastically impact your ability to pursue a divorce on the ground of adultery. 

As for Tiger, his adulterous actions may cost him his family, fortune and possibly his career.  He will still remain a wealthy after a divorce, but the image he cultivated over the years that has contributed to his staggering earnings has likely been permanently tarnished.

A Priest, a Stripper and Child Support

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

An article was posted on FOX News this morning that leaves you waiting for the punchline.  Unfortunately, it is not a joke.  The headline reads, “Florida Priest Seeks Custody of Child From Stripper.”   The article needs no explanation other than to say that issues pertaining to custody of children and child support know no societal, economic or professional boundaries and that when you think you’ve heard it all, you soon realize that you have not.  A link to a more thorough article on the matter is here.

Grounds for Divorce in Mississippi

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

To get a divorce in Mississippi, spouses must either agree on a divorce on the ground of irreconcilable differences or prove that one of the causes for divorce that are specified in Miss. Code Section 93-5-1 exist.  The causes for divorce listed in Section 93-5-1 are:

1.  Natural Impotency

2.  Adultery

3. Being sentenced to any penitentiary, and not pardoned before being sent there

4.  Willful, continued and obstinate desertion for the space of one (1) year

5. Habitual drunkenness

6. Habitual and excessive use of opium, morphine or other like drug

7. Habitual cruel and inhuman treatment

8. Mental illness or mental retardation at the time of marriage, if the party complaining did not know of that infirmity

9. Marriage to some other person at the time of the pretended marriage between the parties

10. Pregnancy of the wife by another person at the time of the marriage, if the husband did not know of the pregnancy

11. Either party may have a divorce if they are related to each other within the degrees of kindred whom marriage is prohibited by law

12. Incurable mental illness

Obviously, some of the divorce grounds are going to be more frequently used than others.  For example, adultery and habitual, cruel and inhuman treatment are the most commonly asserted grounds for divorce while others like natural impotency and being related to one another are very seldomly asserted. 

In later posts, we’ll discuss in more detail the individual grounds for divorce and what constitutes each ground.  If you are considering a divorce, a quick review of the allowable divorce grounds should provide an overview of what circumstances need to exist in order to get a divorce without the consent of your spouse.

What is a No-Fault Divorce?

Tuesday, August 25th, 2009

In Mississippi, a husband and wife may be granted a divorce on the ground of Irreconcilable Differences.  This is often referred to as a “no-fault divorce.”  Of the divorce grounds available in Mississippi, Irreconcilable Differences is usually the simplest, quickest, cheapest and least stressful way to obtain a divorce.

Typically, the husband and wife both sign a document called a Joint Complaint in which they ask the court to grant them a divorce on the basis that irreconcilable differences have arisen between them.  Usually there is a written agreement attached to the Joint complaint that addresses the division of assets and debt, provides for custody and visitation and addresses other issues important in a divorce.  Both spouses will also need to complete a financial statement, unless they agree to waive that requirement.  Once the Joint Complaint is signed, it is filed with the Chancery Clerk’s office in the county of either spouse’s residence, if both are Mississippi residents.  If one of the spouses is not a Mississippi resident, then it should be filed in the county where the Mississippi resident lives.  The Chancery Clerk will require the parties to pay a filing fee at the time they file the Joint Complaint. 

Once the Joint Complaint is filed, it must remain on file for at least 60 days before the judge has the authority to grant the divorce.  In comparison to divorces based on grounds such as adultery, the 60 day period is pretty quick.  During that 60 day waiting period, it is important to remember that you are not divorced.  Even though an agreement has been reached on a divorce, no spouse likes to see their husband/wife displaying their new “companion” in public and such actions often result in litigation.

Once the 60 day waiting period is over, your lawyer will meet with the judge to present the written agreement for approval.  The Court will review the agreement, along with the financial statements, to determine if the agreement is adequate and sufficient.  If so, the Court will sign a document called a Judgment of Divorce that, when filed with the Chancery Clerk, will grant the divorce and end the marriage. 

There are other ways to obtain a divorce on the ground of Irreconcilable Differences and there are variations to the process, but this procedure is the most common.  If you are considering a divorce, you should contact an attorney to discuss your options.  Because of its simple procedure, many people try to get divorced without an attorney.  While this may save a little money on the front end, you may end up with a really bad divorce agreement that you cannot change.  It is well-worth the investment in an attorney to make sure your divorce is done properly.

Drinking and Divorce

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

A Muslim woman in Malaysia is scheduled to be beaten next week with a rattan cane after she pleaded guilty to drinking beer.  Apparently, consuming alcohol is legal in Malaysia unless you are a Muslim.  In Mississippi, no matter what your religion, drinking beer will not currently result in the government beating you with a cane, but it can contribute to or cause the destruction of a marriage. 

The Mississippi Legislature has identified twelve situations where a party is entitled to a divorce without their spouse’s consent.  The fifth situation is habitual drunkenness.  The legislature did not provide any guidance as to what it considers habitual drunkenness to be and there are not many cases that elaborate.  However, it is safe to assume that the drinking spouse must become intoxicated habitually and that the frequent intoxication must have an adverse effect on the marriage.  

If you believe you are entitled to a divorce because of your spouse’s habitual drunkenness, it is important that you pay attention to what type of alcohol is being consumed, the quantity and the frequency of consumption.  You will also need to explain how the habitual drunkenness is affecting your marriage.  Some examples of the effect the drunkenness may have on the marriage are that after drinking, your spouse has drastic mood changes, becomes belligerent, engages in frequent verbal altercations or even commits physical abuse.  It is important to link the habitual drunkenness to behavior that is offensive to the marriage.  To assist you in recalling all the details and to aid your attorney in advising you, it is recommended that you take notes to document the drinking and the behavior affecting the marriage.  Often, a spouse is unpleasantly surprised at the amount of alcohol consumed when they review their notes taken over a period of time. Of course, do not take notes and leave them where they may be found by your spouse.

How Much Child Support Will I Receive?

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009

One of the most frequent issues in family law is that of a custodial parent’s concerns over how much child support he or she will receive. While the courts have the final say in determining the amount of child support, the Mississippi Child Support Award Guidelines are fairly easy to follow and working through the statute’s procedure often gives a paying spouse the assurance that the amount being considered is appropriate. Also, calculating a child support estimate early in divorce negotiations can often assist the parties in agreeing on a resolution.

The first step in the process is calculating the amount of monthly adjusted gross income. This generally is done by taking the gross amount of money earned in a month (which includes all earnings, even if paid in cash) and deducting from that the amount withheld for federal, state and local taxes as well as social security contributions. If the paying parent is required to pay child support for another child pursuant to a court order, then that amount should also be deducted from the monthly gross pay. If mandatory contributions to a retirement plan are made, then a deduction is taken for those contributions. (All of these mandatory deductions, including taxes and social security contributions, are most easily calculated by reviewing the payor’s W-2 form). Finally, if the paying parent is also the parent of a child living with him, then the court may subtract an amount that it deems appropriate to account for the needs of that child. The amount remaining (if calculated on a monthly basis) is the monthly adjusted gross income. If the calculations were done from a W-2 form then the net amount must be broken down into a monthly amount by dividing the net amount by twelve.

Once the monthly adjusted gross income is calculated, the next step is to multiply the monthly adjusted gross income by the correct child support percentage to come up with the amount of monthly child support. The percentages are:

1 child: 14%
2 children: 20%
3 children: 22%
4 children: 24%
5 or more children: 26%

There are some exceptions to these rules, but this summary should assist anyone who wants to take a shot at coming up with a ballpark child support calculation. It is important to remember though that the Court is the final authority over the amount of child support and it evaluates child support amounts carefully to make sure that the law is followed.